1) Give people the benefit of the doubt. Most of the time people have good intentions. Many of us, myself included, have been trained to be cautious and suspicious of others, even seeing this as an important and effective skill in life and business. However, we almost always get what we expect from people, so the more often we give people the benefit of the doubt, the more often they will prove us “right,” and the less often we will waste [...]
100 Ways to Simplify Your Life (and Make Yourself Happier) I’ve been striving to simplify my life for many years now, and have recently (through my writing) been advising others how to do the same. In the process, I’ve learned that making little changes in our attitudes, habits, and environment can have a big impact. So today, I thought I’d compile a list of 100 ways to simplify your life – from the practical to the philosophical, and everything in [...]
At the start of the new millennium the Dalai Lama apparently issued eighteen rules for living. Since word travels slowly in the digital age these have only just reached me. Here they are. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others Responsibility for all your actions. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of [...]
A luxury cruise is one of life’s pure joys. Today’s modern cruise liners are engineering marvels; floating 5-star hotels that offer the best service, accommodation, cuisine, and activities. They visit exotic locales, with non-stop relaxation or stimulation, depending on your pleasure. Over the past few years, cruise companies have spared no expense and literally invested billions in jaw-dropping super ships. Even if you’ve cruised before, you probably have not experienced anything like these new marvels. But, the best news is [...]
1. Happiness is a direction, not a destination. -Unknown 2. Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it. -Bill Cosby 3. Love yourself. 4. Where there is love, there is life. -Gandhi 5. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. -Eleanor Roosevelt 6. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra. -Jimmy Johnson 7. An eye for an eye only makes the world blind. -Gandhi 8. Bring deeply loved [...]
Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good. When in doubt, just take the next small step. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does. Pay off your credit cards every month. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. [...]
Three Breathing Exercises “Practicing regular, mindful breathing can be calming and energizing and can even help with stress-related health problems ranging from panic attacks to digestive disorders.” Andrew Weil, M.D. Since breathing is something we can control and regulate, it is a useful tool for achieving a relaxed and clear state of mind. I recommend three breathing exercises to help relax and reduce stress: The Stimulating Breath, The 4-7-8 Breathing Exercise (also called the Relaxing Breath), and Breath Counting. Try each and see how [...]
You’re interviewing for a job. After 20 or 30 minutes, you’re asked: “Do you have any questions?” The worst thing you can do is ask, “What is it your company does?” (Hey, it has happened.) The next worst thing you can do is say, “Um, nope, I don’t have any questions.” You need to ask some questions! Asking questions shows your interest in a company and makes you look smarter (smart people tend to be inquisitive). Asking questions gives [...]
1. A person’s a person, no matter how small. 2. You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself, any direction you choose. 3. Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you. 4. From there to here, and here to there, funny things are everywhere. 5. Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened. 6. Today is your day! Your mountain [...]
Even though these great teachers have passed on, their words still live, and in them their wisdom. I’ve made a list of seven what I believe are some of the greatest teachings by the world’s greatest minds. 1. Realizing Your Dreams “If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up someplace else.” – Lawrence J. Peter In order for us to achieve our dreams, we must have a vision of our goals. Writing down our dreams and creating [...]
Just because you don’t have the deep pockets or stellar grades it takes to get into top tier schoolsdoesn’t mean you can’t enjoy some of the same resources these establishments offer. Through open courseware programs, you can access course materials from a wide range of top universities. Whether you decide to take these courses on your own time or just skim through the information, we’ve compiled a list of 100 places to start looking for great business and entrepreneurship information. [...]
There are literally hundreds, if not thousands of ways to make money online. All of these ways are derivatives of two basic ways, which are selling your own products & services, and selling other people’s products & services. Each has their advantages and disadvantages, and I personally do a little of both. Today’s post is basically to show you a few of my favorite places to work online. I do offer web services and have my own websites to make [...]
Here are 53 things to keep in mind if you want to be a better entrepreneur: Don’t let emotions cloud your decisions. Accept criticism, no matter who gives it to you. Never stop networking. Learn from your own mistakes. Learn from other people’s mistakes. Around every corner lies an opportunity for you to sell something. Don’t get too greedy… pigs get fat and hogs get slaughtered. Try not to mix your family life with your business life. No matter how successful you are, [...]
THE RESUME SAYING IT WITH IMPACT Using verbs and adjectives effectively adds impact to your resume. Read this section again carefully just before you actually begin writing. DESCRIBING RESULTS – GOING BEYOND DUTIES The typical resume merely lists duties and does little else to sell the person. One of the best ways to sell yourself is to describe accomplishments in terms of results. Duties are often covered by “Responsible for …” Results are generally covered by using the verb developed, [...]
We have all read about people who are successful briefly. They win a gold medal, make a fortune, or star in one great movie and then disappear.…These examples do not inspire me! My focus and fascination is with people who seem to do well in many areas of life, and do it over and over through a lifetime. In entertainment, I think of Paul Newman and Bill Cosby. In business, I think of Ben and Jerry (the ice cream moguls)…As [...]
1. Don’t try to read other people’s minds 2. Get up 30 minutes earlier so that you don’t rush/get a ticket while driving too fast/have to explain why you’re late/get fired 3. Get 8 hours of sleep per night so that you think more clearly 4. Stick to your budget 5. Start saving and investing every week, no matter how little you can spare 6. Balance your checkbook 7. Don’t try to be friends with everyone. Cultivate closer relationships with [...]
The 25 most difficult questions you’ll be asked on a job interview Being prepared is half the battle. If you are one of those executive types unhappy at your present post and embarking on a New Year’s resolution to find a new one, here’s a helping hand. The job interview is considered to be the most critical aspect of every expedition that brings you face-to- face with the future boss. One must prepare for it with the same tenacity and [...]
Personal Goal Setting Planning to Live Your Life Your Way Many people feel as if they’re adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don’t seem to get anywhere worthwhile. A key reason that they feel this way is that they haven’t spent enough time thinking about what they want from life, and haven’t set themselves formal goals. After all, would you set out on a major journey with no real idea of your destination? Probably not! Goal setting [...]
Improve Your Concentration Achieving Focus Amid Distractions How many times have you sat at your desk and tried to focus on a task, only to find that your mind is wandering? Despite your best intentions, you just can’t concentrate. We’ve all been in this familiar, frustrating situation, and it’s something that can really undermine your performance. In this article, we’ll review strategies to improve your concentration and reduce your daily distractions. Environment Your personal work environment plays a [...]
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